We Are Strangers No More

John Cherek joined the Jonathan House community earlier this year in a committed volunteer role through the Ignatian Volunteer Corps. We are so grateful for John’s warm spirit and dogged efforts to support residents in challenging situations. Here, he reflects on a recent service trip to the U.S./Mexico Border.

The opening verses of the Christian song, The Summons Hymn, begin with these words:

Will you come and follow me if I but call your name?
Will you go where you don’t know and never be the same?
Will you let my love be shown? Will you let my name be known,
will you let my life be grown in you and you in me?

Little did I realize as I participated in a week of volunteer service at the Texas border, that these words would help me appreciate and give meaning to this experience as well as my volunteer work at Jonathan House.

At certain times in our lives, we feel called to do something that has the potential to promote the goodness of humankind and to build up the kingdom of God through community. Often, we resist those nudges, dismiss them, or set them aside for another day. Fear of the unknown or what may lie ahead if we follow the call prevents us from taking the step forward to respond to the call.

A view through the border wall near Hidalgo, TX

John’s Story

As an Ignatian Volunteer Corps member, a year ago I was asked to provide service to Jonathan House, part of the International Association for Refugees. I knew absolutely nothing about either organization. I had little or no knowledge or experience working with asylum seeking refugees. But my name was being called and I decided to go where I didn’t know. The service time at Jonathan House with new working friends and house residents was preparing me for a trip to the Texas border town of Alamo, located in the southernmost art of Texas near McAllen.

The first day there started in the rain walking to a grocery store. Coming out of a bakery, Maria invited us into her truck to take us to the market. We were total strangers. She dropped us off in front of the store and we thanked her profusely. With a backpack of food, we emerged from the store into a deluge of rain and started back to the hotel. We just resigned ourselves to being soaking wet. After about a block or so, a car pulls up along side of us and the driver says he has two ponchos for us. We were total strangers. Donning the newly acquired ponchos, we moved across a busy road to Walgreens. Shaking ourselves off like wet dogs, we gingerly picked up a few items and went back into the incessant rainfall.

After deciding to take a less traveled street back to the hotel, we continued our journey. Within a few minutes time, a truck pulls up near us and Maria rolls down her window and says, “get in, I have been looking for you.” In disbelief, like God had come out of a cloud, we jumped into Maria’s truck. Now shaking with wet ponchos, she said “let me turn on the heat.” Arriving at the hotel, we sat in the truck and could not stop expressing our gratitude to Maria. After telling her we were there to volunteer in Alamo, she shared that at one time, after immigrating from Mexico, she was welcomed and served by many volunteers. In turn, she tries to give back to anyone in need, whether a ride in the rain is needed or food needs to be shared. We were no longer strangers.

John and friends sort fruit near the U.S.-Mexico Border

Who is Serving Who?

We had come to Alamo to serve, but those we thought we were going to serve turned out to be servants to us. Maria and our friend with the ponchos had welcomed us and shared what they had so we might not get soaked to the bone. We were strangers no more. We will never be the same and only hope that we can share love of neighbor as love has been shown to us.

And that is the message and mission of Jonathan House—to welcome and care for refugees so we are strangers no more, but, human beings loving and serving each other in response to the call of Jesus.

-Story by John Cherek

Driving Change: Immigrant Brilliance at Work

Riding the Struggle-Bus

It started at the gym. Jonathan House resident Pascal and volunteer Eric became workout buddies, and while they exercised, Pascal shared about his housemates’ struggles to get to work without a driver’s license or car. He said, “I could see my housemates waking up at 3 a.m. for a 6 a.m. shift” so they could catch the bus. Pascal knew these guys were smart and hardworking; it was a hard to see them spend so much time struggling to travel to subpar jobs.

The struggle hit home when Pascal himself received permission to work and began applying for jobs. Pascal worked with robots in his home country and hoped for a job in his field but was limited to applying for lesser jobs on a bus line. Without a license and car, his brilliance would go untapped. Even grocery shopping was complicated: “You may need to go multiple times a week because you can’t carry much on the bus,” he said.

A Community-Driven Solution

Pascal noticed a lack of driver’s education programs accessible to immigrants. The existing resources were expensive and not tailored to the needs of immigrant adults. This gap inspired Pascal and Eric to create Change Drivers, a non-profit helping new Americans access transportation and career opportunities. Pascal dedicated his time while still at Jonathan House to making Change Drivers a reality. He is now a co-founder and board member.

nspired by Jonathan House, which provided him safe and stable housing, Pascal aims to offer similar support through Change Drivers. “Knowing that I’m helping others in my situation motivates me,” he said. As Change Drivers enters its second year, Pascal has received his driver’s license, purchased a car, begun work and moved out from Jonathan House. He hopes both Change Drivers and Jonathan House continue growing, helping more new Americans offer their gifts in our community.

Change drivers is already making a big impact on the lives of other immigrants. One recent student said this: “Getting my license means everything to me because I can finally do what I’ve always wanted to do. I can be dependable, travel the world, help those around me.”

Immigrant Brilliance

Asylum-seeking neighbors come from all around the world, with every kind of background you can imagine, but they all have this in common: they are problem-solvers. With the deck stacked enormously against them, our friends must be creative and resourceful to rebuild their lives from scratch. Pascal, like many other immigrants, has put his brilliance to work creating solutions that benefit the whole community. We are so grateful to know and celebrate brilliant immigrants like Pascal!

Big News from Jonathan House

These are Real People

A Palestinian man living in a car in St. Paul. A pregnant mom from Ethiopia, currently homeless. Two parents, a baby and a preschooler from Honduras, staying with relatives who can no longer support them. These are some of the 46 people who have inquired about housing at Jonathan House since the beginning of the year. All of them are in Minnesota on a journey to save their lives, seeking permanent safety from persecution through the U.S. asylum system.

With your support, we’ve been able to house and support 31 asylum-seeking neighbors over the last six and a half years, but we typically turn away 19 people for each one we’re able to welcome. God has an open door for each of these beloved ones, but our capacity is limited. Each “no” is a fresh heartbreak. 

My own son, Sammy, is also 4 years old, just like that kid from Honduras. Recently he saw a person holding a sign at an intersection, asking for help, and wondered out loud whether we could let him come live at Jonathan House. I explained that we don’t have room, but Sammy wasn’t satisfied. He feels deeply that no person should be without a home. 

I told Sammy what I’m about to tell you: “We’ve been working hard on a plan to make Jonathan House bigger so we can help more people.” Sammy responded: “That would be a lot of work, Mommy. You can’t do that on your own.” 

Then he hatched a plan: “You should tell your friends about Jonathan House, then they can tell their friends and they can tell their friends and EVERYONE can come help build the big house!” 

He’s a smart kid. 

Widening the Doors of Welcome

So here’s the big news: we are building a big house, and we need you to come help build it – and to bring your friends, too. 

I am thrilled to share Growing Hope, our new 3-year strategic plan. You’ll see that this year we’re building our capacity with staff, funding and programs so that by the end of 3 years we can move into a new facility with doubled capacity. 

I invite you to share in this adventure. Jonathan House is more than a shelter; we are a community of shelter, hope and healing where asylum seekers and Americans can thrive together. When you join us with a recurring donation, you are widening the doors of welcome. You can have a direct impact on neighbors fleeing persecution and help them to rebuild their lives in our community. 

When you join the Keychain Collective with a recurring gift before April 15, you’ll not only have the satisfaction of unlocking the door to welcome, you’ll also receive a special travel mug thank you gift and an invitation to an intimate dinner party for Jonathan House insiders only. 

Join us on the front lines of hope.

Widen the Doors of Welcome

The Keychain Collective is our community of recurring donors – Jonathan House champions who sustain and grow our community of shelter, hope and healing.

Like a Father and Mother to Me

By Ella Skiens with Rachael Lofgren, IAFR Staff

“I had nowhere to sleep at night. I was having a hard time.” Salana was referred to Jonathan House through a connection to the Center for Victims of Torture. Like many asylum seekers, he had been unable to find stable housing since he wasn’t allowed a work permit for the first year in the US while he waited for his asylum case to be decided.

Over the last four years, Salana shares that it was Jonathan House “who helped me with my food, my shelter, my clothes, all my needs… It was Jonathan House who helped support me, the one who carried me through this time.”

At Jonathan House, he was connected to legal services through the Advocates for Human Rights. After a long wait, Salana recently had his final asylum hearing. Before the hearing, he invited Jonathan House staff to pray with him for a favorable outcome. Staff accompanied Salana to court, waiting and praying in expectation with him. But the court-appointed interpreter didn’t show up, and after waiting for over an hour, the judge decided to reschedule.

Five days later, Salana again waited with his lawyer in the courtroom for the interpreter to arrive and help him answer the judge and defense’s questions.

But the interpreter didn’t come. Instead, something incredible happened. The judge accepted the lawyer’s appeal to decide the case then and there without an interpreter present. The judge agreed that there was credible fear of persecution based on the information submitted by the lawyer and in his asylum application. He told Salana, “my denial rate is 92%. Congratulations, and I hope you use this privilege to do good things in the United States.”

Being the 8%

It all happened so quickly that Salana was confused when everyone came up to congratulate him. Only when his friend, who spoke his language, explained did he realize he had been granted asylum. Like always, he joked with his broad smile when recounting that God had made it easy for him. His face glowed the rest of the afternoon as he celebrated with staff over a meal. He was excited to tell his large family about the victory but had to wait because it was night on the other side of the world where they lived.

Receiving asylum is the first major obstacle removed from their path toward reunification. To Salana, having asylum in the US means “a place where you can have a home and be safe from danger, and your family is safe from danger.” His hope for the future is to be with his family and to live in peace. Peace is one of the most important things to him.

And while he waits for reunification with his family, Salana compares Jonathan House to family. “They have been like a father and a mother to me. As long as I live, I will never forget what Jonathan House has done for me.”

Photo by MegHuff Photography

Pursuit of Personal Goals

By Ella Skiens, Jonathan House Staff Member

It’s 9 pm on a Monday, and Alamnseh sits at the kitchen table in Jonathan House. She pours over an English packet on the table. With thick glasses perched on her nose, her finger guides across the black letters as she sounds them out. Her housemate passes by and tells her, “Alamnseh, good student.” Upon hearing the compliment, she laughs and says, “No good student. Old woman.”

At the age of 60, she is learning a language again. The rest of us at the women’s Jonathan House tell her that she is not old and that she is a good student. She is young, and when we say that it makes her laugh. We explain that although she has been taking beginner English during the four years she has lived at Jonathan House, being a good student is someone who tries regardless of what level they are at, regardless of what age they are. She is young and strong for starting over in many ways to live in the US.

It’s Never too Late to Learn a Language

Almost 50 years after her last time at school, Almanseh has found a classroom at the International Institute. In February 2019, Alamnseh began literacy classes with no prior experience in English. She started timid, learning letters and practicing basic skills like holding a pencil. Since then, Alamnseh has continued to be in her “Beginner English” class, striving to learn her third language and overcoming significant barriers in her way. Through it all she is dedicated. Her teacher, Stacy Dietrich Varney, Languages Program Manager and English for Work Instructor at the International Institute expressed:

“It is rare that someone who starts with no literacy in their 50s perseveres to her level of learning; language learning becomes so difficult as we age. As a literacy teacher for almost a decade, I have no other student with which to compare Alamnseh.”

A Community of Transformation

What the public might not see at Jonathan House are the women sitting down at the table together, helping one another with a language that is at varying degrees of new to them. After a third or fourth attempt at pronouncing a word, the room may erupt in laughter together at how unashamed and fearless you must be to try again, and that is Alamnseh.

Much of her success she attributes to her teachers at the International Institute and the resources at Jonathan House. “Jonathan House has helped me by encouraging me, by sitting down and teaching me, by telling me, ‘it’s okay, you’re going to learn. It’s going to be difficult, but it is going to be useful. Just be patient, we are here for you.’”

Alamnseh, too, has encouraged many of us never to give up. “I don’t know if she knows it but knowing her has made me a better teacher and overall person,” shared Alamnseh’s teacher, Stacy.

With over 1,500 hours of English practice accomplished, nothing changes for Alamnseh. In the evening she will sit down and pick up her English packet again and softly sound out words to herself. It’s in these quiet moments of self-study that her determination shines the most. Jonathan House is honored to stand with and witness the remarkable resilience of people like Alamnseh and celebrate the successes of personal goals being accomplished as residents choose to fearlessly build a future in the US.

An Asylum Miracle

SJ and her friend Bea dancing together. Credit Kelsey Ueland.

By SJ Holsteen, Former IAFR-MSP Ministry Leader

“I’ve been up to the mountain this week, fast and praying,” Bea told me. We were waiting outside the immigration court before her second asylum hearing. She seemed peaceful and prepared.

Bea arrived at Jonathan House in 2019. Throughout the years, it has been an honor to witness her trusting in Jesus for strength and hope in a long and difficult asylum journey.

Jesus, You are the Judge…

At Bea’s first hearing months before, the US government lawyer proclaimed that Bea should not be eligible for asylum. The judge ended that court session mid-trial. Still, Bea’s reliance on prayer was evident. Once, when we prayed about her upcoming trial, she declared, “Jesus, you are the Judge. You are the Lawyer. You are the Witness. You are the One who speaks.”Her attitude of surrendered faith struck me again in the waiting room. “I’ve been up on the mountain. I fasted and prayed to prepare myself. Physically and spiritually.” Bea didn’t pray to try to win God’s favor; she prayed to remind herself that God was already lovingly and faithfully present with her.

A Transformed Lawyer

So this is how we stepped into the courtroom: expecting to see Jesus.

The change in the government lawyer’s demeanor was immediately recognizable. Instead of the aggressive, accusatory tone of the previous trial, her questions were straightforward and respectful.“If you have an argument for why asylum should not be granted, will you tell us your grounds for denial?” the judge asked the government lawyer. There was a pause, then the lawyer said. “I will defer to the judge.” 

Today I get to deliver good news!

Bea closed her eyes and pressed her hands to her face when the judge spoke. “Asylum granted.” Tears coursed down her cheeks (and mine). He continued, “As you can imagine, ma’am, sometimes I have to deliver bad news. Today I get to deliver good news. And I wish you the best.”

On our car ride from the courthouse, Bea yelled the story joyously into the phone to friends and family. “Jesus has done it!” she exclaimed, “The Holy Spirit has done it!” She recounted the surprising change in the government lawyer’s attitude and the moment the judge spoke.

A Miracle by Delay

Years ago, when Bea’s asylum hearing kept being delayed and rescheduled, she told me, “I can only trust that God has a greater plan in mind and that this will be for His glory.” After the judge granted asylum, the lawyer explained the policy she’d originally cited as grounds for denying Bea asylum had recently expired. If Bea had had her asylum ruling at any previous time, the policy would have applied to her. The judge would have been legally-bound to deny her claim. I suddenly recalled “God’s plan” that Bea had trusted in all these years; He took that pain and waiting and worked it in her favor to gain her asylum.

I am deeply challenged and encouraged by the faith-filled hope of refugee friends like Bea. Witnessing her journey reminds me of God’s undeniable love and justice for His forcibly-displaced children.

Welcome to our newest IAFR staff, Ella Skiens!

Ella Skiens joins the IAFR Minneapolis-St. Paul team as the Live-In staff member at Jonathan House’s residence for women and children.

What’s your main role as staff at IAFR Jonathan House?

I’m the live-in staff member for Jonathan House’s home for women and children. I have the honor of spending most of my day in the company of these women. My hope is to form deep relational connections, with a focus on prayerful discernment and walking with them in friendship and love. I also get to support their independence in navigating transportation, English language, and life in the US, among other household-related tasks.

How did you first learn about the plight of asylum-seeking individuals in America?

I first heard about forcibly displaced people while working with people seeking refuge in Germany.  This international focus on forced displacement then turned to my home country when I had the opportunity to be an English partner with World Relief. The honor I felt while we worked on English together caused me to look for internships where I could learn more. So I worked with Jubilee Partners in Georgia. I realized there that most organizations work with refugees, but for people seeking asylum, it’s a different process with fewer resources. It has been a journey of learning bits and pieces from opportunities God has put in front of me. 

How did you first get involved in Jonathan House?

Through the work of God. I started working with IAFR and had a long discernment period when I wasn’t sure which ministry site I would go to. Minnesota wasn’t on my radar, but I became increasingly interested in their focus on shelter, hope, and healing for asylum-seeking individuals. Then I had a chance to visit Jonathan House. Through that visit and prayer, I saw God bringing me this opportunity to be live-in staff and to invest in relationships with my housemates. 

What’s something that everyone can do to help the cause of asylum-seeking individuals in the US?

One of the biggest barriers is misperception of who people seeking asylum are and why they are seeking asylum. A lot of assumptions are made. A great way to change that is through relationships and finding ways to be in relationship with our asylum-seeking neighbors. It’s really helpful to look at resources to learn more about our immigration policies, too. For example, what are the different definitions for refugee, asylum-seeker, migrant, internally displaced person, forcibly displaced person, etc? 

Is there a statistic or fact that has surprised you concerning asylum-seeking individuals?

It has continued to surprise and frustrate me understanding how long and slow the process for asylum is. At first, I also did not realize how important housing was for people seeking asylum. I can go on about relationships with people, but at the end of the day, do we have places and spaces for people who need shelter in this long asylum process? It can seem practical and boring to talk about housing, but I’ve been more surprised at the lack of accessible housing for people.

What is something asylum-seeking individuals have taught you?

Strength. I can often let the small things get in my way or turn them into larger worries. However, whether in learning English or through the conversation and laughter of our communal kitchen, asylum-seeking women in particular show me their persistence and strength to not give up despite multiple barriers. These women show me what joy and celebration looks like in the waiting.

Any other line of work you’re in?

Not currently, but I just came from working in Eldercare. I found it so rewarding and a truly needed line of work. My family would say that kids and older adults have always gravitated toward me. I really, really hope that it is true. 

What languages do you speak?

English is my native language, and I learned German for four years in college. I can get around well enough in German, but wouldn’t say that I am fluent. It’s my hope to become fluent in another language, whether that be German or something else. 

What are your hobbies?

I am a big fan of coffee. Whether meeting people for coffee or finding a new coffee shop, you’ll usually see me with my hands wrapped around a warm mug. In warmer months, I love taking walks and watching things grow. I am very excited for the gardening season here at Jonathan House! I also love making small watercolor cards for people to get in the mail. I’m no artist, but a simple card, usually with a good pun, is a fun thing in my in-between time that I hope makes people smile. Newer hobbies of mine include bread-making and sewing.

“As a woman, God gave me respect from the beginning”: Honoring asylum-seeking women on International Women’s Day

March is Women’s History Month, and March 8th was International Women’s Day. We want to celebrate the strength, beauty, and courage of all the asylum-seeking women in our Jonathan House community!

IAFR staff and the asylum-seeking women of Jonathan House marked International Women’s Day by drawing pictures that celebrated who we are as women or that represented a time when we felt strong as a woman. Our friends had some important things to say, so we want to share them with you! Click through the slideshow to view them all. (Slideshow includes both Jonathan House resident and staff contributions.)

Standing with Asylum-Seeking Women

We believe, as our sister at Jonathan House shared, that “As a woman, God gave me respect from the beginning.” God affirms the worth and value of women everywhere as divine Image-bearers. And as another sister shared, “My friend [Jesus] stands with women and girls, and so I am proud to stand with him.”

We want to work for the security, opportunity, and flourishing of asylum-seeking women, because God sees, hears, and cares for women, and women’s rights are human rights!

Who is an influential or strong woman in your life? What do you celebrate about your womanhood?

Lasting Impact: An IAFR Jonathan House Intern Reflection

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Jaydon Crim (on the right) is an Intercultural Studies major at North Central University. Photo taken at Jonathan House with fellow IAFR MSP interns, Haley Merck and Elli Halloran (Summer 2021).

I have long been interested in cross-cultural ministry work with refugees and displaced peoples. For years, though, I naively assumed that I would have to work internationally in order to engage this kind of ministry. Additionally, before this summer, I had little knowledge about the asylum system in the U.S.A. I had never knowingly interacted with an asylum seeker.

Understanding through Relationship

My internship with IAFR Jonathan House allowed me to engage firsthand my passion for cross-cultural work with displaced peoples – here in the United States. It taught me a lot about the asylum process. I also saw what it looks like to effectively support, advocate for, and love my neighbors who are seeking asylum. 

It meant so much to get to know residents at Jonathan House. Throughout my two months of relationship and community-building, I had the privilege of walking alongside individuals through moments of joyous singing, dancing and laughter. I also found myself present for moments of deep sorrow, anger, and confusion. These various shared experiences aided in establishing strong friendships. Sharing in life together also increased my awareness of the realities and adversities faced by people who have fled to the United States in hopes of finding refuge from persecution. Such experiences have helped me to grow in my empathy for and understanding of those around me. 

A Community of Care

It was an honor to work alongside the IAFR Jonathan House team, too. Every single staff member and volunteer care so deeply for those they serve and for one another. Though I’m still an undergraduate and don’t have much ministry experience, the team treated me with respect and welcomed me as one of their own. They offered me fulfilling responsibilities and ample opportunities to use my voice and add my own feedback in team meetings. The team was a supportive community of coworkers and also friends. They’d frequently go out of their way to help each other when a need arose.

Interning at IAFR Jonathan House has been one of the most influential experiences of my life. I’m grateful for the things I learned and the people I met (relationships I continue to build!). I firmly believe that God used my time at Jonathan House to guide me towards my future, to further shape me, and grow my ability to love others like Christ.

“Never Forsaken nor Abandoned”: Finding Hope and Joy in Creation

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A Jonathan House resident experiences Lake Superior for the first time.

At the beginning of September, IAFR Jonathan House took our second annual retreat up north to Camp Amnicon. For three days, asylum-seeking residents, former residents, and staff camped next to Lake Superior. It was a chance to find hope and joy in creation.

Time Together

The time away allowed the Jonathan House community an extended period of fellowship. We ate meals together over the fire, took walks, and even got to enjoy an outing on a sailboat!

Mutual blessing is a foundational value of Jonathan House, and camping is a great chance for this to happen. Children of staff and residents alike find themselves surrounded by grandmothers ready with hugs, prayers, or useful tips for how to dry wet tennis shoes over the fire! Conversation comes unhurriedly and we share laughter over board games.

A Reminder of God’s Care and Presence

A retreat into creation also renews hope and joy, as we are present to each other and to God. One resident shared a dream she had the second night of camping:

“I dreamt that angels of the Lord were walking in line from the opposite side of camp into our camping area. They were glowing white, and they were singing and worshipping God in formation. They were walking by my tent. My heart responded with a cry of joy. I wondered to myself, “God, you are here? I’ve never been here before and it is so secluded. How could you be here in this forest?”

She continues, “As I asked the question, I could sense God respond that He is already present anywhere that we may find ourselves. Even if we weren’t present in that camp, the trees, the animals, and the angels are still there praising God.”

hope and joy in creation

“This dream is very meaningful for me. It showed me that God is concerned for me and my little prayer. He has said that He will never abandon nor forsake us, that He is always with us. This dream showed me that that is true; God is everywhere, if only we look.”

We know asylum seekers have journeyed through many challenging places. A reassurance of God’s presence no matter where we go is significant. We’re so grateful for the opportunity to learn of God’s presence with and from our asylum-seeking friends. And we’re grateful to Camp Amnicon for hosting a space where we could find joy and hope in creation, in community, and in God.